words of wisdom from ma'am abie..

napulot ko lang to.. post din kasi ni ma'am abie to sa blogsite nya.. it's cute.. actually it touches a part of my heart.. read it guys.. sana may matutunan kayo, same ng natutunan ko.. :)

Ganun pala talaga, dati-rati nagtataka ako kung bakit ni minsan hindi naisip ng nanay ko na hiwalayan ang tatay ko kahit na hindi siya perfect husband, mahirap pala talaga maging misis. Na-appreciate ko na ang nanay ko at naunawaan kung bakit nagtagal sila ng tatay ko hanggang ngayon.

Totoo rin pala na kahit anong ganda pa ng sapatos mo, pag napagod ka, hahanap-hanapin mo pa rin ang comfort na naibibigay sa 'yo ng tsinelas.

Uuwi at uuwi ka pa rin sa asawa mo pagkatapos mong maglagalag. Hahanapin mo ang luma mong tsinelas, kasi kumportable ka na sa kanya. Alam na niya ang baho mo, lahat ng mga sikreto mo. At lahat 'yun tanggap niya. Dahil mahal ka niya, mahal na mahal.

the parable of the jar and coffee..

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and
empty Mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty
space between the sand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life."
"The golf balls are the important things - your spirituality, family, your
significant other, your children, your health, your friends, and your
favorite passions - things that if everything else was lost and only they
remained, your life would still be full."
"The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house,
and your car."
"The sand is everything else - the small stuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all
your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the
things that are important to you."
"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play
with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner
out to dinner."
"Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set
your Priorities. The rest is just sand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that
no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of
cups of coffee with a friend."
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a
day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the coffee.

what's with the date?

june 22.. june 22 na pala.. i remember gerry castillo.. my bestfriend.. my so-called-bestfriend.. my "mhineybhest".. we should be celebrating our 5th year anniversary as bestfriends..

i miss him.. dami na kasing nagbago eh.. we're no longer the "teenager-bestfriends-of-all-time".. hanggang ngayon may tampo pa din ako sa kanya.. he's been my first love.. supposed to be my "only love" kung naalagaan lang.. kaso hindi eh..

since grade 5 minahal ko na si gerry.. sa picture ko pa lang sya nakita nun.. that time, 1st year high school na sya.. palagi akong tumatambay sa labas ng gate ng school namin pag malapit ng mag flag ceremony sa high school at pag malapit na mag 1 pm.. yan kasi yung mga time na dumadating si gerry.. palagi kasi syang late.. kala ko simpleng infatuation lang yung nararamdaman ko sa kanya, kasi nagkakaron din naman ako ng ibang mga crushes kaso yung kanya talaga yung di nawala..

nung mag highschool na ko, lalo ko sya nagustuhan.. cute kasi sya eh.. tahimik.. and matalino.. after ng graduation nya, dun kami naging close.. gumawa talaga ako ng paraan nun.. araw araw ko sya sinusulatan.. hanggang yun, nabuo ung friendship na di ko ineexpect.. kaso syempre mahal ko sya nung mga time na yan, so i want a relationship more than what we have.. kaso sabi nga ng iba, di daw natuturuan ung puso, in short di nya ko talaga kayang mahalin.. after nun, nagkaron na sya ng gf.. tanggap ko naman sana yun kahit masakit eh.. kaso dun kami talaga nagkalayo ng tuluyan.. and the last time we talked, siguro last year lang yun, nag-away kami,.. ayun, hanggang ngayon di na naayos,,. parang bigla nawala yung ilang years na pinagsamahan namin..

i miss him..

i miss my bestfriend..

happy 5th year friendship anniversary mhineybhest.. :(

trip to star city..

after ng board exam namin last june 1 and 2 we decided (me, kaye, ar ar and dianne) na mag star city to unwind, isinama ko si rob (para masaya hehe).. here are some of the pictures taken during our trip.. ung iba nasa friendster account ko na.. :)


snow world.. grabe yung experience namin dyan, hehe saya.. ilang beses din ako pinulikat kasi nakaslippers lang ako.. hahaha..



this one naman, sa labas ng gabi ng lagim, haaay halos maubos yung boses ko kakasigaw.. hahaha..


sa snow white.. actually ako lang yung may gusto pumasok dyan.. corny daw kasi sabi nila.. hahaha, pero san ka nag-enjoy naman sila sa pagkuha ng pics.. hehe



sa labas ulit ng gabi ng lagim.. magkaibang cam kasi ginamit namin.. sinamantala yung pagiging mabait nung bantay.. hehe


kami ni rob sa snow world.. hehehe, cute noh? lamig kasi eh..


nakapila kami sa bump car..



sa ferris wheel.. magpapahinga lang kami kasi napagod na kami sa paglalakad.. yun pala nakakahilo dyan.. hahaha, ang bagal kasi tapos ang likot pa namin..


sa ferris wheel pa din.. ang hirap kaya kumuha ng pics kasi ang hirap pagkasyahin ung mga mukha namin sa screen ng digicam.. hehehe



sa pambatang catterpillar.. as usual ako na naman may pakana.. hehe


kami ulit ni rob sa snow white..



nagpapahinga muna kami nyan kakapagod kasi eh..


sa catterpillar pa din.. di na sumakay si ar ar.. pangalawang beses na kasi kami sumakay nyan eh.. hihihi


pahinga pa din.. sbi ni kuya arjay sa comment nya sa friendster ko, ang cute ko daw syan.. hehehehe